Stingray 1975 aka Jon Gary Boze
You know how some people give you the creeps? Well that would explain my youtube experience with the man behind the youtube Stingray 1975 profile. From my first conversation with him, I just got that feeling he was mean shifty and one you wanted to be wary of. Viewing his videos. I don't know if it was the look, the voice or the way he presented himself but you could tell, he was a mean son of a bitch. The kind of man who likely thinks domestic abuse is a normal thing. A guy who probably doesn't treat his family or friends well. These were thoughts way ahead of any knowledge of who he really was. Call it a vibe, a six sense or woman's intuition. He just felt nasty.
Already having revealed that he is the person behind the Molly May profile, let me back track to my
first real experience with "Molly May". I was in a yt live stream and opened up about being a native female. Actually the other viewers had not known I was either until then. The host was like wow you're female but what did Molly May launch on? The fact I was native. What "tribe" did I belong to and all of that. I gave some info. She then went on some random bla bla bla about being a fan of native stuff, she spent time on some indian reservation growing up and on and on kind of weird like. We actually have a name for these kind of people who are not native but get obsessed with the culture so much they want to become native. It's called a "windian" Anyway, that was my first real experience with Molly May and leads into the first email , well I guess all of the emails considering how that went.
Now first experiences with Stingray 1975 was much the same bullshit. Oh he's read up a lot on native things. He's an expert. He quoted he spent a lot of time with a local indian tribe (sound familiar?)Stingray actually debated a few native things with me on yt. I don't think I have the screen shots of most of those because really I avoided the guy. I mean who debates a race thing with that race. Like What to hell you asshole! He used his race as a weapon. I love all races but this guy fit the profile of the backward white homophobic,racist,bigoted,bible thumping southern male. Most of you folks will understand the profile I'm explaining. It's that kind of individual. Like the typical racist 50 yrs ago.
What about natives being killed by a guy is "good stuff". Sick individual!
These are only a few shots of the replies he left on my videos, he left many all tainted with him being an "indian" expert. When he got into that last one about his "religion" I just rolled my eyes. Having dealt with corrupt missionaries, the last thing I needed to hear about was another preaching white bible thumper but I did not want to discuss that with him. I suggested we take the conversation into email to avoid the religious discussion in public. I did pass on my email to him (not realizing he already had it via molly may) and well I did avoid getting into the discussion with him because I did not like the man or his thoughts on things. See I don't like something, I won't discuss it. I won't disrespect another person's beliefs. I will just NOT go there. I have certain experiences with certain beliefs that I do not care for those beliefs BUT I respect every person's right to believe as they see fit, just as I wish to be allowed to have my beliefs without ridicule. I will never ever shove my beliefs down another person's throat and expect the same. I will not bash another's beliefs when they don't bash mine. Cause me strife and I will speak my mind. But not abusive like this man!
Almost every video I posted, Gary badgered me with some kind of racial taunt. He was also very womanizing. I remember one live stream where he said he expected all women to be dressed in a conservative way. There was the awkward discussion about women's breasts, where he was going on about women's breasts being perky or saggy. He also made some reference to a strange apparently southern word "Pootang" which apparently was a derogatory word for female anatomy. He just came off as a total controling jerk and no wonder he was single. It wasn't until much later when OGK posted a video of Molly May attacking Becki that I heard the word "Pootang" again. Molly May used it. What are the odds of two different people using such an obscure word? Gary was friendly to the guys but totally treated any women in the live streams or comment sections like shit. Unless he was (apparently) drinking. Then he'd be flirty and come on to any female. He did it to me and have to say that was creepier than his condesending tone!
I was there when Gary was supposedly doxxed the first time on Camo' Dave's channel. The user posting the information was Gary Boze which I had no idea who that was. They put out information and I was like what? I honestly thought it was someone trying to dox Stingray, after the fact, I'm not so sure it wasn't him, himself. He in fact already had the youtube account with that very same name, same spelling, same capitalization. Also another Gary Boze account. Did he dox himself? Some of the screenshots after, are him threatening people after that supposed doxxing. This the man who was threatened when I told him to die already. But it's ok for him to threaten people with physical harm and guns. That's ok. To repeatedly attack people who he had no proof had harmed him? That's ok? He played the victim then. Well much the same as, oh guess who, Molly May did when she was supposedly doxxed. I don't remember her doxxing because it was whatever insignificant. I do know she exposed a lot of other people's information. She often posed as Princess Bubbles alternate profile. One time logging on and posting some pretty explicit content. But that's ok too. It's the double standard that I got tired of. Screenshots of Gary fighting with and threatening other youtubers.
But let's get into the real story here...
So I was on the reservation for winter gathering, it was the only time I'd actually made anyone on YT aware of where I'd be. I suspected the COL group would try something, since I'd dealt with a couple attempts to hack my google account and other things. I did mention to a few friends on the rez about it. A few who might intercept something. I hadn't been there a day when sure enough someone called the band office asking for "Elle the horse lady". The one answering the phone told them sorry they couldn't confirm if there was someone named Elle in the tribal registry. They did not give out information on tribal members. Sorry. At that point the person, who sounded like a man trying to be a woman started cursing and said something to the effect of dirty squaws. I figured it was the COL group. I did post a video saying someone had tried to dox me and it would be traced. It was traced to a burner phone # in eastern KY. I was trying to think of who was in that state. I posted this video on youtube
I went to Lou's live stream. People were bashing ATW. I made a comment about his white preacher daddy which harsh was not out of line with what everyone else was saying. Gary under his stingray profile threatened me by saying "don't go there Rats". I assumed it was about his already holy roller shit. I said it is what it is sting dear, not all care for or respect beliefs. I figured he'd realize what I was saying. What he said though turned everything around. He said "OK Squaw". And in that moment I realize who'd called the reservation to try to dox me. Not someone from COL but someone who was supposed to be a friend and allie. I was livid and I yelled at him. How dare he! I'd never done anything to him. To try and get my personal information was uncalled for completely!
I let him have it in email. I was livid he'd tried to get my personal information and been such a sneaky disrespectful harasser. I was a female who'd just been threatened by a stalker who was trying to find out who I was and where I was. He replied with some ugly shit and that's where it should have ended BUT then the emails started immediately from Molly May after I blocked Gary's email address. Exactly the same theme as Gary's emails. (refer to the Molly May blog) "Molly May" even referred to herself as a white man. I suspected Gary was Molly May. Confirmed with the ISP trace. He continued to harass me both on YT and email under both names. I finally got them completely blocked and removed my own channel from YT.
And then when it seemed he was totally nuts after first abusing me via his emails and then with his Molly May email address. he sends this "nice" email, as if he hadn't just called me every nasty racist thing he could come up with. Anyone have experience with alcoholics? They are very abusive when drunk and then become all nice and what did I do wrong when they sober up. It sounds just like that.
But it didn't end there. Then Gary went on and played victim saying I'd slandered him. I'd accused
him of being fake. He totally played the card down to pretending his long dead under age son had committed crimes that Gary himself had. He claimed his son at 10 or 13 was tried and convicted of breaking and entering and assault. When someone questioned him about the dates and his son's age, his reply was "Well the kid was always in trouble". Such cold indifference for his child after he was fake crying in his video (which he quickly removed after the date thing was pointed out) he was so upset about being doxxed. Who was the fake? Gary was! What kind of father makes his child take the blame for the ill deeds he's done. What kind of father says his child was always in trouble? Who was raising this child? Who was responsible for this under age child's actions? It seems Gary passes this off as not something that reflects on him. What a piece of shit of a father!
Interesting read right?
I received information on Gary's criminal past from someone who knew him in person. Someone who wished to remain in the dark but who had an axe of their own to grind with them. Yes I did expose his information but I made sure first that it was available online for the public to view. You just had to put in Gary's full name and it comes up under public records. SO in fact it was not doxing. It was informing the YT community of who he really was. Gary already had two other channeled called Gary Boze so not like anyone was doxxing him by exposing his name when he was using it publicly on YT. Furthermore, in several videos he showed his house address and license plate for his car. Who doxxed Gary originally? Gary doxxed Gary. Then again, I'm not sure anyone assisted in his doxxing. The person who posted his information, in fact was posting under Gary's name and who would know that other than Gary himself? Also another thing about the Molly May and Stingray situation. They both go by their middle name rather than first name. An odd pattern there, not unlike a lot of weird similarities between the both. Gary claims he only had one youtube channel/profile. I found three others he has , as well as the stingray profile, then there is the molly may situation and she had what at least five alias's. Do we not see a pattern here people? Do we not understand what really has gone on. Gary/Molly May is one of the biggest trolls and shit stirrers on BOYT.
Why was I targeted by him/them? I'd say because unlike the hot mess they were, I had my act together. I had a solid background and I could stand up against the crap going down. I'd gained some respect in the circle of friends so I was a threat to their own status. I also got too close to their coveted buddy and I think that was the real issue. I think Gary has some unhealthy attachment to that friend and when he thought I was talking to them too much, he had to put a stop to it. Under the Molly May profile, he accused me of "doing things" with the friend. Mind you this is someone I'd only talked to online. Not sure what "doing things" was supposed to mean but the friend and my conversations were completely 100% appropriate and innocent. Anyway, disgusted with it all, I broke off contact with all of the circle of friends. They can deal with their little YT drama on their own. As for Gary, I figured it's only a matter of time before he attacks more people and eventually people wise up and see what a real psychopath he is. Hopefully no one gets hurt in the process.
Update as of 12/23/17, I received this in the mail.
And then this got posted....
Yes I did file a strike for the harassment he threw at me while on youtube. Youtube can see a lot more than the casual user. They chose to take action against him. Notice they did not take action against me for harassing him. Now you have the real story. Gary Boze aka Stingray 1975 is an abuser and harasser!
